
How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
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Latest episode: Thu Mar 13 2025
Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!
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- Mar133 Hidden Reasons Why Women Lose Interest in You—and How to Keep Them Attracted Long-Term! with Johnny Cassell65mins
- Mar11The 7 ‘Friend Zone’ Destroyers: Go from Hearing ‘Let’s Be Friends’ to ‘Let’s Go to Your Place!’33mins
- Mar6Tired of Swiping? How Matchmaking Can Set You Up with Incredible Women (Ditch the Apps for Good!)57mins
- Mar4How to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Instantly Attract Women29mins
- Feb27How to Make Bold Moves without Being Creepy: A Top Coach for Women Tells All! (with Evan Marc Katz)67mins
- Feb25Does Love (and Life) Feel Like a Grind? The ‘3 Classes of Experience’ Will Set You Free44mins
- Feb20It’s Rom-Complicated! How Nice Guys Can Get the Girl: Lessons from ‘Say Anything’ (with Hollywood Producer Cristina Nava)80mins
- Feb18My Girlfriend Jess Reveals the #1 Secret to Landing Second Dates! (Most Men Make 3 BIG Mistakes)48mins
- Feb16“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar57mins
- Feb15LIVE Approaches: Hear Me Chat Up Cuties IRL—Listen NOW to Get Numbers and Dates Tonight! (Part 4)116mins
- Feb14Say This, Get the Date (No Flaking!) How To Never Run Out of Things to Say (Part 3 of 4)67mins
- Feb13Struggle Talking to Women IRL? My 3 Openers (90% Success Rate!) Fix that Instantly (Part 2 of 4)74mins
- Feb12Special Series! Stop Trying to ‘Approach’—Do THIS to Meet & Attract Women IRL the Right Way (Part 1 of 4)81mins
- Feb9Tired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!54mins
- Feb7What’s YOUR Dating Superpower? Discover the 7 Attractors that Make Women Want to Date You71mins
- Feb6Struggling with Dating Confidence? Try this Mindset Shift to Become Instantly Magnetic to Women (Live Coaching Results)76mins
- Feb5How to Read Women, Know What to Say, and Get Her Asking YOU Out: Hayley Quinn’s Secrets to Attraction54mins
- Feb4How to Meet Your Dream Woman—and How Jason Dated a Lakers Cheerleader! (Live Coaching)61mins
- Feb3Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to Find Love by Watching Rom-Com Movies (Seriously!) Episode 1: ‘Groundhog Day’68mins
- Jan30“I Went from Zero to 83 Matches in a Week!” The 6 Essential Photos You Need for Dating App Success30mins
- Jan28“Will You Be My Boyfriend?” The 10 Green Lights that Trigger Instant Attraction in Wonderful Women51mins
- Jan23Exclusive! How to Win on Dating Apps—Secrets from the Man Who Invented Swiping, Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen53mins
- Jan2110 Invisible Red Flags that Get You Rejected: Which Mistakes Are YOU Making? Plus 10 Fast Fixes41mins
- Jan16What to Write on Your Bio: 7 Secrets for Way More Matches! Plus: Steal These 10 Funny, Flirty Prompts29mins
- Jan14Ask the Dating Coach: ‘HELP! She Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep During Sex. What Do I Do?’42mins
- Jan9Dating Apps Are Broken—Inner Circle is the Fix! Find Love Using this Innovative App (Featuring David Vermeulen)40mins
- Jan7Forget Resolutions! Here's Your New Year's REVOLUTION: 5 Game-Changing Dating Strategies to Attract Your Ideal Girlfriend in 202577mins
- Jan2From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!65mins
- Dec31Which Dating App is Right for YOU? The Top 7 Apps to Swipe Right on Love and Find Your Soulmate29mins
- Dec26Yikes! 5 BIG Dating Mistakes Women Hate—and 5 Fast Fixes to Find Love (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)64mins
- Dec24Bummed About NO Good Matches on the Apps? These 15 Quick Fixes Will Turn Your Profile into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Zach)72mins
- Dec19From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year’s Eve29mins
- Dec17Make Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with Jack72mins
- Dec13Stop Settling TODAY! How to Crush Self-Doubt and Attract the Special Woman You Deserve — Featuring Garrain Jones67mins
- Dec11Stuck in Your Head at the Bars? How to Confidently Approach and Talk to Women—Even if You’re Shy (Live Coaching with Eric!)91mins
- Dec7From Dull to Dynamic: How Passion and Authenticity Make You Magnetic to Women, Featuring John R. Miles54mins
- Dec41,000 First Dates Later: My Top 7 Easy Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Her Asking You for Date No. 255mins
- Nov29Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life37mins
- Nov27Live Coaching Session: Connell’s Client Matt Conquers His Fear of Approaching—and Gets 2 Phone Numbers!64mins
- Nov24How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)63mins
- Nov23Bestselling Author Dr. Robert Glover on How to Confidently Meet Women without Being Too Nice (Encore Episode)80mins
- Nov22My Girlfriend Tells All! How We Connected on Our First Date (Featuring My Amazing Partner Jessamin) Part 5 of 548mins
- Nov21The New Way to Confidently Approach and Connect with Women (Part 4 of 5)49mins
- Nov20How to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5)49mins
- Nov19You’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)55mins
- Nov18How to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity—Part 1 of a Special Series63mins
- Oct24How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get Rejected26mins
- Oct213 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying32mins
- Sep23The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid30mins
- Jun23How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)27mins
- May20How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity41mins
- May1510 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach25mins
- Apr15The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes!39mins
- Apr12Ask the Dating Coach: “HELP! A Catfish Has My Nude Pics and is Blackmailing me for $1,000!”24mins
- Apr8The NEW Way to Flirt with Women: 10 Tested Tips to Make Sparks Fly33mins
- Mar26Ask the Dating Coach: ‘I’m Short! Should I Have My Legs Broken to Help Me Get Dates?’23mins
- Mar22How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren49mins
- Mar18How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out28mins
- Mar125 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women29mins
- Feb23Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag52mins
- Feb20Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge31mins
- Jan22The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!37mins
- Jan15The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women37mins
- Jan9LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!59mins
- Jan5Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too46mins
- Jan2LIVE COACHING! What to Say When You Approach Women, to Be Charming and NOT Creepy60mins
- Dec135 Ways to Flirt, Connect and Make Sparks Fly with Your Ideal Woman25mins
- Dec8The 6 Game-Changing Photos to Get More Matches on the Apps24mins
- Nov28A Dating Coach Rates the Rom-Coms: ‘Love Actually’24mins
- Nov17Struggling with Flirting? How To Go from Brutally Boring to Confidently Charismatic39mins
- Nov14My 7 Biggest “Aha!” Dating Moments… Revealed41mins
- Nov107 Flirting Secrets Women Want You to Know with Melanie Sutrathada54mins
- Nov7Sober Dating, Part 2: 7 Ways to Confidently Attract Women, without Using Alcohol37mins
- Oct31Sober Dating, Part 1: How I (Finally!) Quit Drinking, and How YOU Can Confidently Date without Booze34mins
- Oct2415 Dating Tips in 15 Minutes!28mins
- Oct205 Ways to Be More FUN with Women and Escape the Friend Zone41mins
- Oct173 Dreaded First-Date Mistakes to Avoid, and What to Do Instead25mins
- Oct13For Dating Confidence, Unleash the Power of Radical Authenticity26mins
- Oct10Use these 5 Escalation Secrets to Escape the Dreaded Friend Zone24mins
- Oct6How to Become a Man of Authentic Action… and Attract Your Soulmate27mins
- Oct3The Power of Presence: 6 Ways to Get Out of Your Head and Flirt with Charm32mins
- Sep29Do THIS to Make Dating a Lot Less Painful and a Lot More Fun22mins
- Sep26The Magic Move to Get Quality Online-Dating Matches31mins
- Sep22Use these 5 Moves for Great First Dates27mins
- Sep19How to Become a Man of Action29mins
- Sep15Lip Service: 7 Ways to Confidently Go for the First Kiss39mins
- Sep12How to Charm Beautiful Women: 7 Simple Flirting Moves28mins
- Sep8Use the “3 Times Rule” and Stop Getting Ghosted37mins
- Sep5Are You Man Enough to Be Feminine? How to Truly Connect with Women31mins
- Sep1Risky Business: For Instant Confidence, Become a Bold Risktaker26mins
- Aug29“How Do I Get More Dates on the Apps?” Your online-dating questions answered!40mins
- Aug25Revealed! The 4 Pillars of Instant Dating Confidence36mins
- Aug22How to Flirt with Women: the Wrong Way (DON’T do this) and the Right Way!30mins
- Aug1511 Ways to Make Dating Fun & Get More Dates NOW33mins
- Aug11Ask the Dating Coach! “Help! How Do I Stop Getting Friend Zoned on First Dates?”38mins
- Aug8How to Make Her Your Girlfriend, in 7 Easy Moves30mins
- Aug4The Right Way to Approach Women, with Confidence and Charm26mins
- Aug18 Tested Tips to Escape “Interview Mode” on Dates and Create a Connection31mins
- Jul28The 5 Super Shifts to Gain Confidence and Start Attracting Wonderful Women28mins
- Jul25Do THIS to Be Fun and Flirty on Dates + 5 More Myths Busted33mins
- Jul217 Dating Disasters to Avoid: How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 224mins
- Jul18Consent is Sexy! How to Connect with Women in the #MeToo Era, Part 135mins
- Jul14“Women Only Want Hot Guys” + 4 Other Dating Myths Demolished!38mins
- Jul11LIVE COACHING! The secret to avoiding awkward silences on dates + how to go for the kiss67mins
- Jul74 Ways to Stop Fearing Rejection and Start Feeling Confident36mins
- Jul6LIVE COACHING! How to Be More Attractive to Women TODAY, using the ‘Confidence Code’75mins
- Jun30What’s Your Dating Superpower? 6 Ways to Spark Connections!26mins
- Jun277 First Date Outfits for Men, with style expert Riane Bawalan37mins
- Jun23Your biggest dating problems… solved!37mins
- Jun2021 Dating Tips for Introverts, with Amber Brooks, editor of DatingAdvice.com47mins
- Jun169 Advanced Dating Moves! Plus: How to Ask for a Number28mins
- Jun13How to Be a Better Man, Featuring Alex Manley, author of “The New Masculinity”67mins
- Jun9First Date Topics to Create a Strong Connection23mins
- Jun6How to Be an Attractive Man, with Dr. Robert Glover and “The Big Stick” Author Tony Endelman89mins
- Jun2How to Describe Yourself on a Dating App: 15 Moves for More Matches37mins
- May3012 Tips on Dating as an Introverted Man, with Anthony Recenello87mins
- May26How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App: 23 Quick Tips!25mins
- May23First Date Tips for Guys: 27 Tips to Make Sparks Fly51mins
- May19How to Be More Confident with Women? Become Radically Authentic!54mins
- May15LIVE COACHING! How to Get Out of the Friend Zone on Dates and Make Sparks Fly64mins
- May12How to Date Wonderful Women without Approaching or Using Apps75mins
- May9How to Be Flirty and Funny—and Never Run Out of Things to Say23mins
- May5LIVE COACHING! How Connell’s client went from fearful to confidently approaching women…and getting dates!88mins
- May2From nerdy to flirty! How to stop doubting yourself and attract your dream girlfriend (with Brian Pippard)67mins
- Oct6How To Be a Confident Man52mins
- Sep30How to Start a Conversation on a Dating App60mins
- Sep29How To Talk To Women62mins
- Sep29What Women Want In Men66mins
- Sep27How to Flirt with Girls Online59mins
- Sep27How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend75mins
- Apr28Pilot3mins